Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Blog Number 2: Option Number 3


            In 1992 Dorothy Allison published a controversial novel that both allowed her to tell her child hood story while helping many people open up about their own personal experiences as well. However, like most great pieces of literature, critics have exploded with opinions on writing about such a vulgar topic.
            Bastard of Carolina, by Dorothy Allison, takes place is Greenville, South Carolina. It is here that the story of the Boatwright family, a family known for drinking, and rough men, unfolds. At the core of the novel is a girl named Ruth Anne Boatwright, more commonly known as Bone throughout the novel. Bone, is a bastard child with an illegitimate birth certificate who grows up to find herself immersed in a conflicting household and relationship triangle.
            In summary, Bone’s mother Anney marries a man by the name of Glen when she is very young. Later in the text Anney becomes pregnant. While Anney is delivering the stillborn, Glen rapes Bone in the parking lot of the hospital. This initial rape in the parking lot is the first real attack on Bone in the novel that leads into a downward spiral of events in Bones life as her stepfather continually rapes, beats, and emotionally tortures her. The cumulating abuse gives Bone bruises, broken bones, and a haunted heart. Throughout the novel many characters face inner battles. Bone struggles between silence and speaking up to regain her dignity before she looses everything.  Glen battles against what he knows is the right thing to do and what his temper makes him do to Bone. Anney also is at war with herself to make the decision to finally leave Glen or stay with him.
            An article in The New York Times, tells of a very fascinating yet disturbing account of domestic violence within Hollywood. Woody Allen, born december 1st, 1935 is an American Director, screenwriter, and playwright. Woody Allen married Mia Farrow. 
           Woody Allen and Mia Farrow's daughter Dylan Farrow made public a personal account of her tormenting experiences in a letter to the New York Times, in this letter she tells of Woody Allen's sexual abuse towards her during her childhood.
         Dylan Farrow, in her letter, says,I was seven years old, Woody Allen took me by the hand and led me into a dim, closet-like attic on the second floor of our house. He told me to lay on my stomach and play with my brother’s electric train set. Then he sexually assaulted me.” She goes on to explain that for as long as she can remember Woody Allen had been doing things to her that she did not like. She reveals of how he would make her get in bed with him when he was in his underwear, touch her thighs inappropriately, and place his head in her naked lap. I was immediately drawn to this article because these things were the exact things that were happening to Bone. Bone says in the novel when explaining what Glen was doing to her, “He pinned me between his hip and the sink, lifting me slightly and bending me over. I reached out and caught hold of the porcelain, trying not to grab at him, not to touch him.”
            In both Bastard of Carolina and Dylan Farrows letter to the New York Times, women stand up to reveal their deepest and most disturbing life stories. Furthermore, both Bone and Dylan are victims of sexual assault from their stepfathers.
         Later in Dylan Farrows letters she tells of how after many years of silence she asks her mom if what her stepfather is doing to her is normal. This is turn leads to huge family conflicts. Her mother whom is concerned is also worried that she may be lying. Bone experiences many of these same conflicts when trying to tell what has happened to her. Dylan explains that after she tells her mother this, the doctors and lawyers start getting involved and she must re account her story again and again. Bone experiences interactions with the doctors when Glen abuses her one-day so bad that she must see a doctor for her crushed tailbone. The doctor immediately assumes domestic violence and asks Bone is she has been abused.
         In Bastard of Carolina, Anney leaves Glen after learning about his violent tendencies towards Bone only to come running back to him again and again. Similarly, Dylan Farrow say’s, “my mother declined to pursue criminal charges [. . .] Woody Allen was never convicted of any crime. That he got away with what he did to me haunted me as I grew up. I was stricken with guilt.”
Both mothers in each story struggle immensely with the love they have for their child along with the love they feel towards their husbands. I feel like both mothers allow the dark truth to be repressed in their minds to the point where it is almost as the abuse is not a reality. In Chapter 5 of Bastard of Carolina, Bone say’s “When he let me go, there was a bruise, and Mama saw it right away” (Allison, 70). From this quote the readers knows early on that whether Anney admitted it or not she knew there was domestic violence occurring, and essentially it was her decision to stay with Glen.

            Both Dorothy Allison writing this novel, and Dylan Farrow publishing this letter about her celebrity father, made many people angry. In my opinion however I am extremely glad that these women stand up for themselves and work to share their stories with millions of people despite the embarrassment, shame, guilt, and difficulties in inflicted on their life. Literature should seek to both excite a reader emotionally and work to teach a lesson. Literature is not made only to please a reader because it is something that exposes a story and sometimes life is not pretty and things are messy. Good books in my opinion make you really think, they make you angry, sad, sympathetic, and lastly they are relatable. Millions who read this article and novel have learned that breaking your silence can be one of the hardest yet rewarding experiences in ones life.


http://kristof.blogs.nytimes.com/2014/02/01/an-open-letter-from-dylan-farrow/ 

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